Slow Jam Saturday : Ralph Tresvant, "Do What I Gotta Do"

As my family, friends, and readers know, I'm a die-hard New Edition fan. For this week's Slow Jam Saturday, I wanted to highlight the group's front man, Ralph Tresvant, and the final single, "Do What I Gotta Do," from his self-titled debut album. This track is another collaboration with the legendary Jimmy Jam & Terry Lewis, showcasing Tresvant's impressive high tenor tone.

The song opens with the line, "Oh, I guess it's one of those things a man just has to do," suggesting that the protagonist is aware his decision might not be easy or comfortable. He expresses a desire for solitude, stating, "I've been feeling lately like being single or just alone to get into myself." This longing for self-reflection highlights a need for personal growth and self-discovery, implying that his current relationship may be hindering his development.

The chorus further emphasizes his dilemma, as he acknowledges the pain he will cause by breaking his partner's heart. Ralph admits, "I don't wanna see her cry, but it's hard to live a lie," indicating that he values honesty above all else. He understands the importance of transparency in a relationship, even if it means temporarily hurting his partner.

The phrase "do what I gotta do" is repeated throughout the song, reinforcing the notion that Ralph believes he must make this difficult decision for the betterment of both parties involved. He recognizes that living a lie is unsustainable and that the relationship needs to end for both individuals to find their happiness.

At twenty-three years old when he released the song, Ralph exhibits a maturity and accountability in the lyrics. He acknowledges the need to prioritize his well-being, explaining, "Any good relationship starts inside of a happy man." This statement highlights his understanding of the importance of self-care and self-love before entirely investing in a relationship. By recognizing his own needs, he hopes his partner will understand and respect his decision.

While everyone knows Ralph's signature song, "Do What I Gotta Do," it successfully delves into the complexities of relationships, honesty, and personal growth.

Final Grade: A

"Do What I Gotta Do" is available on all streaming platforms.